Women in this current age are
often seen as delicate creatures that are incapable of fending for themselves,
and are in continuous need of help from men to sustain our existence. This
widespread stereotype is very dangerous, not only for the women of today, but also
for the future generations of women still to come. Women have shown a
remarkable ability to adapt to very hazardous situations because society
deems it “normal”. An example of a hazardous “normal” situation would be
allowing oneself to continually be in a relationship with a man who shows obvious
signs of abusive tendencies. It is permissible for men to behave in an abusive
or semi-abusive way, because men are taught that aggression is an acceptable
means of venting ones stresses or any other emotion on the negative side of the
emotional spectrum. In reaction to their partner’s negative emotions, women,
through our mystical femininity, are supposed to be able to soothe, care for,
and allow our male counterparts to express themselves in such haphazard ways. Yet
if a woman shows the slightest sign of vulnerability or anger, through means of
tears, or yelling, we are raving lunatics.
Obviously,
since there are undergraduate courses in colleges all across the nation
dedicated to social injustices, especially the injustices women face because of
gender stereotypes and social norms, this is an important issue to bring
awareness to. Since so many women are labeled as hormonal, therefore
irrational, it is hard to get the message of inequality out. I wonder how we
can most effectively, as women, raise awareness about the injustices we face
without being rudely labeled and scorned for wanting to be able to effectively be
self-sufficient, or take care of those we love?
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